I deleted all of my previous post , approx 15 secs agowhy? actually I had this urge since morning to disband this blog
but I assume I will recreate another blog once again if I disband this , smacks forehead*
so why waste the effort and time
plus I'm positive that most of my blog viewers are used to typing woanchii.blogspot.com already right , bhb-ness * ( I just realized recently that I like to ASSUME things , since I'm used to typing woanchii.blogspot.com , I ASSUME everybody else is used to it too）
see this is my BIGGEST problem or a malfunction as I call itI like to ASSUME too much , if assuming is a hobby , it had been my hobby since ages ago
I never realize this, till yesterday.
things I assume may be random stuff
like when I see a puddle of dog pee in my living room I ASSUME it's Matrix(my pet which is a male and doesn't know how to control it's bladder) who did it
and like when I see my facial scrub's cap left open, I assume that my mother used it ( because I ALWAYS close the cap after using )
but you see I'm not a mindless freak who likes to assume things
I use common sense when I assume things , I maybe cuckhoo , but I'm not dumb
& if you think that everybody assumes things as much as I do , YOU'RE WRONG
you know why you're wrong? because I assume that you don't know how many things I assume a day. you get it ? I ASSUME almost everything
and when I assume something , I expect it to be right/correct/true/positive
well, that's probably because 90% of what I assume is always true
the little 10% of things which I misanalysed ( fail to assume) are mostly related to human feelings , human behavior you know, things that has to do with humans
okay for instants
me n my bf hasn't spoke to each other for a day
I will assume that he cease to care/love/dote/miss me anymore,
I will also assume that he likes somebody else that's why he's neglecting me
I know what you're thinking , I assume you're thinking of course you'll assume those things, which girlfriend wouldn't , like DUH? ( see what I assume is correct right, wtf )
but you see
my bf is seriously incapable of doing simple things-like sensing I'm angry at him,not at the weather or somebody else. And if he miraculously does, he's at loss because, god, tennis is so much easier to understand than girls.
besides that, he NEVER expresses his feelings
since I am an assume-lover, he also assumes that I agak-agak tau when his mad/sad
which is what I always FAIL to assume
so in the end of the day
we will both end up in a cold war, not talking to each other and I will be crying myself to bed thinking that what I assumed is true ( which is not )
so yesterday I talked to my bf and I finally made things clear
I will stop assuming anything related to human feelings , human behaviour, anything that has to do with bloody humans
I will stop crossing my arms and pouting my lips( and simply assuming ) because it certainly will NOT do the trick
From now onwards if I want the message to be send across clearly, I must pronounce these words slowly and clearly "are you angry of me?/ I am angry of you."
I figured out by doing so it will save me alot of misunderstanding/tears
Lastly, COMMUNICATE with your loved one's , don't jump into conclusions without confronting / expressing how you feel first, because it will bring nothing but tears , I can guarauntee you that.
I certainly don't wanna end a relationship that is hard to come by because of some stupid assuming habit =/
Gee , goodie me spending 20 minutes here when I'm supposed to be in the shower
